Discover How to
in every one
How to Support
Your Kids and Grandkids
in their stages too!
Taught by Pamela
Teaching and Supervising Transactional
the material that won the Eric Berne Award)
It's true -
they're not just for kids!...As an adult,
you have stages of development
fact, learning how to
navigate these fundamental growth and development stages successfully
is the foundation for every other success in adult
someone asked you, "What are the stages of adult growth and development?" would you even be able to name
one of them, let alone list the growth tasks you need to carry
surprising if you can't - because no one taught you... until
discover answers to these questions and much more in
10 one-hour streaming audio
You won't have to travel anywhere - and you don't have to wait one more minute, because
your classes begin as soon as you
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Do you think
it's important to know…
What the stages of your adult life are - and those of everyone else's?
What stage you are in right now, and what the tasks are you need to
carry out to thrive?
Which aspects of adult stages of development are the same as
those of childhood and which need to be different?
What the unique rules are that govern how your emotional brain
and how you can work with each one?
Which patterns of relating are emotionally nourishing and sustaining
which are toxic?
What your "emotional DNA” code is, and how its instructions direct
your life - even though you're likely not aware of them?
Which parts of your emotional life are due to “nature”, which you need to
“nurture” and how you can accomplish that?
How to recognize when you need to relate in a “joining with” way and
when you need to create boundaries?
How you can raise emotionally intelligent children?
How you can raise your EQ (emotional intelligence)?
Imagine gaining all these benefits and many more. Instead of stumbling along
without a map, how much more confidence you will have and what better choices you will be able to make when
you have the crucial information you need to succeed in all aspects of your life. Then you
feel better about yourself,
reduce your stress and raise your feeling of inner security
increase your emotional satisfaction
improve your relationships
keep better emotional balance
become a better parent to yourself, your children or grandchildren
boost your emotional health
expand your emotional life skills
understand your own and others’ needs and motivations
be able to create the emotional life you desire.
This 10-hour once-a-week training is for you if you’re an adult who wants to
experience greater emotional well-being and satisfaction in your own personal life and in your relationships,
if you want to be a parent who is even more capable, if you're a counselor wanting to be more effective with
your clients, a student wanting to learn more easily - if you're working with other people in any
And, because there can be so many levels of learning involved,
completion of the class gives you the right to repeat the class
at no charge as many times as you want for as long as the class is
A Personal Invitation from Instructor Pamela Levin
Hi, I’m Pamela Levin, and I'm delighted offer you this 10-hour training in which
I’ll unravel the mysteries of how our adult life stages evolve - and the emotional work we need to do in each
one — ground-breaking, paradigm-shattering information I've gleaned from more than 40 years clinical research
and 69 years of life experience.
Each session reveals answers to many key life questions—about who you are, how
you’re made, what motivates you, and how you can reduce your stress and create greater well-being and emotional
satisfaction in all facets of your life.
You will also learn how others are made and what motivates them - in fact, you
learn how to decode emotional needs and signals - your own as well as those from others.
Events that challenge our emotional lives are unavoidable (sorry!), every
life has them. But how do you maintain a healthy emotional core to help
you stay balanced and get through them
without being defeated?
That’s what I’ve learned to do, as over the years I’ve either personally faced
or helped my clients face just about every emotional life challenge: death of loved ones, job loss, emotional
and physical abuse, abandonment, war stresses, depression, failure to meet personal goals, financial hardships,
single parenting, physical illnesses … the list goes on.
After graduating from the University of Illinois College of Nursing and working
in clinics and hospitals, I had the good fortune to meet Eric Berne, MD, psychiatrist and founder of
Transactional Analysis (TA) which is about what goes on between people. I was
fascinated and incredulous that Eric was developing objective information that could make sense of
relationships. I began studying TA with him in 1966, becoming the first nurse and the first woman to become a
Clinical Transactional Analyst, and two years later, a Teaching and Supervising Transactional Analyst (the
At that time Eric wanted to know how people develop scripts--life plans made in
childhood and carried out outside of awareness in adulthood. I thought that first we had to understand how
people develop, and then, how we develop scripts, which is how the stages of development and those of emotional
development became the focus of my life work.
As I shared what I was learning—first with my clients, then in workshops,
lectures and later, giving professional trainings around the world—people everywhere affirmed the power of the
material I was presenting.
In Villars, Switzerland, members of the International TA Association from 72
countries voted that this work receive the prestigious Eric Berne Award.
Now, people in the US, Canada, Australia, South Africa, the UK, Germany,
Belgium, France, Switzerland, Italy, Japan, Singapore and more let me know how significant this information is
for them and how they use it every day in their personal life, their relationships and work.
|“I read for myself. Now I’m going to teach it to my
— Reader, Malibu, California
|“We use this material for the Parent-Child Resource
Centre, which offers women a community of support that includes workshops on parenting and
topics of interest to women…”
— Program Coordinator for Salvation Army Family Services,
|“I’m researching how to apply this information to
working with mentally handicapped adults for my degree at the University of
— Health professional, Griesheim, Germany
|“I am going to suggest this as a must for my
— University Psychology instructor, Ontario,
These award-winning, life-transforming insights are the same ones that will be
revealed to you
in these ten classes - and in the comfort and privacy of your own home or office or wherever you access them on
your mobile device.
Here’s What You’ll Learn:
Over the course of 10 sessions, you'll discover the various aspects of every
emotional life along with the positive steps to take that strengthen each part of your emotional
What is Emotional Development?
floored by the power of what you call "the
—Human Development music educator
and musician, New York.
Class Two: You and I Are
Presence: Showing Up for Life
Your Brain Stem and Your Physical Survival
Bonding and Connection
Building Basic Adequacy and
What’s Nourishing or Toxic to Your
Fundamental Emotional Being
|"I picked up several nuggets from this one class.
. . I got my hour's worth!"
Class Three: We’re Still
One But It’s a Big World Out There
Your Sensory and Motor Systems
Exploration, Variety and
Basic Emotional Needs and
Random and Goal Oriented Action
What’s Nourishing or Toxic to Your
Four: You and I Are Separate
Separation, Independence and
Cause and Effect
The Basic Social Contract
Deciding to Think
What’s Nourishing or Toxic to Your Budding
|"Your presentation in
the class is quite clear and thorough. I very much
appreciate your delivery and "take" on expression of
the concepts. Your pace and restatement are
well-placed, in my opinion!"
Class Five: Who Am
I, Who Are All These Other People
and Where Do I Fit?
Forging and Updating Your
The Role of Your Social Network and Your
Place in It
Uniting Your Sensory-Motor Self with Your
Testing Personal Power
Gender and Sexual Identity/ Fantasy and
Actions Have Consequences
What’s Nourishing or Toxic to Your Emerging
Class Six: Given Who I Am, How Do
I Make My Way in This Tribe?
Developing Skills Based on
Skills for Your World As You Know
Morals, Manners and Values
Sample Structure Messages
Excluding, Arguing and Hassling
Making Not-Ok to Get To OK
What’s Nourishing or Toxic to Your Personal
Class Seven: Regeneration:
Reproducing Your People
Bridging Childhood and Adult
The Purpose of Revisiting Previous Themes
Developing Your Sexual Self
Separating from Parents and
What’s Nourishing or Toxic to Your Sexual
Maturity and Self-Responsibility.
"... thank you for sharing
your deep knowledge and expertise... I don't
really know how to describe how I feel after hearing
lessons 1-7. For me, it's opened up a whole new world
that I didn't even know existed, despite
old! So many things are clearer to me, and a lot of
my past experiences finally make sense.
— Consultant, age 44, The
Connected, Separate, and Independent, Or Am
Establishing Your Grown-Up Self
Continuing Your Fundamental
Your Emotional Code in Action
Pain and Gain
Learning to Steer Your Ship of
" ... quite rich. . .
like a banquet every week that lasts more than a
mother, author and book publishing coach,
Nine: Summary and
How This Information Was
Culture, Self-Responsibility and Emotional
The Extra-Genetic System
Emotional LIfe: Outer and Measurable vs.
Inner and Subjective
Tools for Dealing with Your Personal
Self-Limiting Beliefs and Life
Your Questions and Comments
Class Ten: Applications to Your Life
How to Take Charge of the Three Basic
Patterns of Emotional Relating
Addressing Trouble Spots -
How to Identify a Personal
Applications: Couples, Parenting,
Grandparenting, The Learning Process, Educational Settings,
The Creative Process, Organizational Life,
The Healing Process, Culture, Personal Ethics
Further Resources Available to
|"Thanks for an incredible
experience. . . I want to make Emotional Development a
household word. . ."
Yes, I want to start NOW - Sign me up, please!
How it Works
As soon as you register, you’ll
receive your confirmation email so you can start your first class right away and start creating a
better emotional life right now. Then one week later, and for the next nine weeks, you'll receive
access to your next lesson along with the next class study guide plus bonus supplemental messages to support your
That means you are learning about your emotional life from the
comfort and privacy of your own home or office, or wherever you access it on your mobile device. And, you're
learning at a pace that allows you to consider and integrate the material before the next class. And, you receive
this empowering and indispensible information free of travel expenses. You save time, save money, prevent hassle
and learn in a way that’s accessible and convenient, in the environment in which you choose to access
(Note: if you are currently in Advanced
Transactional Analysis Training you can apply your certificate for 10 hours’ training
credit). You can also get this certificate if you would like it for any other
Pam gathers your questions throughout the classes and answers relevant ones during
the classes themselves or in the support materials. (After you register, you’ll receive an email telling you where
to send yours.) Please do send them when you have them and also, please do
ask as many questions as you need to understand the material.
Free Study Guide
Prior to each class, a Study Guide is available for you to print out and use to take
And you won't have to worry about broadcast times
being problematic for your schedule or time zone, because you can pick any time within the week to
listen. However, it’s recommended that you listen as soon as possible after each class
becomes available to you so you have maximum time to digest the information before the next class - and listen
again if you like.
What to do if you miss a class:
Simply listen to the replay on your computer or mobile device within the week. What could be
easier! However if you have to miss a class there is an opportunity at the end to access classes you might have
missed (see about your graduation gift below.)
Designed to Support You Emotionally… Even As You Learn about
This class is all about emotional well-being, including how
you experience it: That's why, every class ends with a brief, guided experiential exercise
in which you sit back and feed your emotional self that helps you integrate the material even as you're
learning about it.
"Thank you very much dear Pam for those 10 lessons full of new insights
I felt each week very grateful for your nourishing affirmations at the end
of the sessions which made me feel relaxed, important, having
a place on earth and
having the permission to need, feel and be happy about
I'll go on exploring the learnings and will celebrate this transition with
those new permissions."
- Human Resources Specialist, Switzerland
You can click here to secure your place and start your learning right now.
Note: Even if you've read The Cycle of Life or Cycles of
Power, these classes will allow you to delve much deeper into the material than you can just by
reading, and you’ll have a better opportunity to digest and integrate it.
How much does it cost?
You're probably wondering how to pay for this course..
As you know, to attend a course like this, a full 10 hours, and taught by the
expert who discovered it, could easily cost well over $500 just to register. Then you'd have to add several
hundred dollars more for travel, lodging, meals—not to mention the time out of your daily schedule and the
hassle of making travel arrangements, etc.
But this course won't cost you well over $500 plus all those extra expenses plus
your time and energy.
This 10-week course (Ten One-Hour Trainings) costs
$347. And your certification, should you desire it, is an additional $50.
Click here to start improving your emotional life and relationships
This is a small fraction of what you'd pay for a live event. When you compare
the value of what you're getting to what you're paying, it's clear that this is very affordable.
"What a wonderful course. .
I could never
equate money to what you've given us. .
. already my life has been
enriched. . . I feel very privileged to have been on this course and will
thoroughly recommend it to everyone I know."
— 2nd year Transactional Analysis
(To see course objectives, Click Here)
Others Responses toThis
(*based on the two books upon which this course expands,
The Cycle of Life and
Cycles of Power)
“I am in Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous and have
been in Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families, Alakid and Overeaters Anonymous. Your book
told me what I was covering with all these addictions.”
— Reader, Minnesota
|“This material is invaluable in my
— Drug abuse counselor, New York
|“Now that I know I’m not supposed to outgrow what I
needed as a child, I can finally feel normal!”
— Graphics Designer, California
|“I didn’t realize there were stages in parenting as well
as in the children being raised, and especially that they are the same stages! Fantastic! My
parenting skills have now improved and I’m also much more relaxed. Thank
— Parent, Seattle, Washington, USA
|“… a joy to read and reread this marvelous book
[referring to The Cycle of Life, upon which this course expands].”
— Editor, Child Care Resources,
|“My therapist gave me this information two years ago,
and it still brings insights.”
— Client, Batavia, New York
|“I found your words very inspiring, and although new
concepts to me, very familiar. What I’d been feeling inside was put into words. Thank
— 21-year-old first-time mother, 8 months
|“People in retirement communities love Cycles of Power.
They intuitively understand the childhood of old age, and use the tools to go ahead and do what
they need to do, to meet their needs and separate from their families at the end of
— Geriatric counselor, Scottsdale,
|“I am a movement therapist and use this material to
strengthen cognitive understanding and skills in the area of development.”
— Massage practitioner, Clinton
|“This is a new bible to me… please send a few more
copies, one of which is for my brother’s birthday…”
— Reader, Victoria, B.C.
|“I learned so much after reading Cycles of Power,
including that I have more work to complete and how not to repeat the problems I have with my
daughter. Thanks so much.”
— Reader, Baton Rouge, LA
|“I graduated from university with an A average in
Psychology and Philosophy and a minor in Drama. With all that mind work, I didn’t learn a
thing. My [Inner] child was searching for me. You gave me the key. I have begun to open some
doors. My heart is full. My child smiles and cries. I exist. Thank you.”
— Reader, Waterloo, Ontario,
|“Your book was the perfect healing tool following my
divorce. I only wish I’d known before.”
— Reader, Illinois
|“I want to use this information in a class I’m teaching
for codependents and adult children of dysfunctional families, and later in a class for nurses,
and also on health, healing and wholeness.”
— R.N. from Kansas City, MO
|“We are writing for permission to use this material in
our book on training psychotherapists....”
— Coauthors, London, England
|“I am using this material for a research paper required
for my Psychology of Family course.”
— Advanced degree student, Mill Valley,
|“Can you refer me to a Masters’ or PhD program based on
this information? My career goal is to apply this material to working with parents and children
in both educational and therapeutic settings…”
— University student and mother, Kronberg,
|“I use this material in my work with ACA’s and with
victims of sexual abuse because they are totally ignorant of what good parents do. It has a
wonderful, 'melting effect' with them.”
— Clinical Psychologist, Taylor,
|“Cycles is one of two books that are
required reading in my training groups”
— Southeast Institute President, Chapel Hill,
|“This is an incredible resource… for individuals and
— Editor, Common Ground of Hawaii
|“… an exciting addition to the literature… can be read
at different depths… reveals a philosophic insistence that hope is always alive and a better
life is possible for each human being.”
— Author and founder of Mothers, Fathers and Others Who Care
|“ I’ve not found any material written that makes such
clear distinctions between the current developmental tasks of adult life and unfinished
business from previous stages.”
— Supervisor of Graduate Programs in
Buddhist Psychology, Naropa University
|“Cycles offers parents of mentally retarded
children ways to understand and apply normal stages to their offspring as they attain
comparable mental ages.”
— Director, Timpany Center for Special Education, Office of the Santa
Clara County Superintendent of Schools, California
|“Brain injured people go back to ground zero, a prenatal
state. Cycles describes how to take them through the stages of childhood so they can redevelop.
This book is basic; it’s the bottom line and should be used as key material for all the human
services people, for in-service training and in medical schools.”
— Therapist for brain-injured people, Kansas City,
|“As a classroom teacher, Cycles provides me
with concrete ways to support and build self-esteem in my students.”
— Teacher, San Antonio, Texas.
To Start Your Better
Emotional Life Now:
|Imagine your life when you feel secure in
knowing the basics of your own emotional life and that you share that same essential emotional
design with everyone else. You feel confident in your understanding of what makes you tick and
what motivates others as well. And you understand what’s emotionally nourishing and what to
avoid taking in because it’s toxic!
Yes, sign me up now so I can learn from Pamela
Levin how to thrive in the emotional landscape of my own life and deepen and enhance all my relationships
with other people.
I understand that I will receive ten one-hour
classes (one per week for ten weeks) plus supplemental comments and free Study Guides for each class AND on
completion, my complimentary graduation gift will be that I will be able to repeat the class
AT NO CHARGE for as long as it's offered.
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want to express my deep gratitude to you for sharing your wisdom and knowledge with me. This
course has profoundly changed my life and made me realize so many things about myself, my life
and the world in which I grew
many things now make sense,
it has given me a great sense of inner
feel optimistic and hopeful about the future. So thank you, thank you, thank you, and if
you have any more courses like ED101, please let me know!"
— Consultant, 44 year old
man, The Netherlands
excellent presentation, full of
— District Services Dept., Santa Clara County Schools,